Putting paper in its place
An inspired look at reducing your paper-induced stress
Since the ancient Egyptians began writing on papyrus 5000 years ago, humans have been making decisions about where to store these flimsy pieces of plant pulp.
Fortunately for us in the modern era, paper isn’t as fragile, expensive, or prone to rot as those hammered fronds. But it does mean that we can acquire a lot more of it than the ancients ever did. A ton. Even in our technology-rich world, people still rely heavily on print and paper.
Look on your desk right now and you might find things like mail, bank statements, records, books, checks, correspondence, receipts, printed emails, files, and more. All of it paper. Ra help us!
Paper’s like water
The interesting thing about paper is that it’s a lot like water. If there’s a clear direction, it will end up where it needs to go with a minimum of fuss. It will “go with the flow.”
When the direction of the flow of paper isn’t defined, it will pool up in unexpected places and in undesirable volumes. When life gets crazy and when you put off handling mail for a while, it can become a tsunami-like wall of paper.
Today, we’ll hone in on the kind of paper that comes to you unbidden: mail.
What’s in your mail?
Simply put, mail is made up of containers (envelopes, boxes) and contents (everything inside them). But it’s not that simple. It can include postcards, newsletters, coupons, fliers, catalogs, and more. It gets sent to you equally by people you want to hear from and people you don’t.
Some mail requires action: urgent, moderately urgent, not urgent at all. Mail comes from someone who wants you to respond in some way. As if you don’t have enough to do.
This may be obvious, but because there are so many choices to make about all this mail it’s often easier to deposit it in one location and close the door.
Where does it come from?
Come rain or snow or storm of night, the stuff I get in my mailbox arrives every day at about 10am. When we first moved into our house a year ago, we had no system. So the mail piled up. Our personal mail, business mail, stuff for the previous tenants. Everything. It was a mess.
At a spot in the kitchen where everything was landing already anyway, I set up a mini-mailbox. There, we divided the mail by who it was addressed to.
Now, it’s my daily routine to pick up my mail and sort it at the mini-box. I open everything immediately and discard of all the things I don’t want: envelopes, inserts, credit card offers, etc. I have plans to put a recycle bin and a shredder nearby, so all that’s left over will be the items that need action.
Where does it go?
Deciding where to put things once they come into your life is a personal decision that is unique to you.
To discover what works best for you, watch how you obtain your mail and observe the path it travels from the mailbox to your desk. Over time, you will begin to notice where it pools up and stagnates.
Where do you put it?
Where things accumulate, you need a way to remind yourself to take the next action step.
If, for example, that piece of mail is a bill, where would you like to put it so that you remember to pay it? If it’s a conference registration form, where will it live so you remember to take the next step (like filling it out or checking your budget)?
Everyone does it differently according to their own preferences. I have one client who uses a vertical file folder system with a file for bills and a file for receipts to enter into her bookkeeping software. I like to file it out of sight after putting a task in my organizing software.
What would work for you? Follow these steps to find out.
Things to try
1. Notice where your paper comes from
For a few days, bring a heightened awareness to the myriad sources of mail and paper in your workspace. You don’t need to fix or change anything, just notice with curiosity the places it all comes from.
2. Stem the tide
You may see after a few days that there are ways to reduce the volume of mail and paper.
When I noticed the number of catalogs we were getting, I called each business and requested to be removed from their mailing list. This may sound tedious, but the volume of mail decreased dramatically within a month – so there was less to sort.
When you start reducing the volume you have to deal with, it’s a profound way to care for yourself and nurture your business.
3. Think about where you want the things you need.
Look carefully at what kinds of things accumulate and notice what you need and trust the answers that come up for you. Often simple solutions are the most effective.
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168 days ago,
Sharon Thompson said:
Jen,
My sorting starts at the curb. I move from mailbox to recycling bin and toss in all offers, unwanted catalogs, flyers. There are many times I come back into the house with empty hands. The only things that make it past the door are bills, my Netflix movie, magazines or other subscription information I’ve asked to receive.
Then inside, I open everything, recycle the envelopes and inserts, move the bills to my desk, the catalogs and other info to the “read as I eat lunch” pile.
I, too, have stopped many of the catalogs I never asked for. I ripped the back page of the catalog off–the one with my name and address and the address of the sender–write in bold print across it: “Take me off your mailing list,” tuck it into an envelope and send it back to the company.
I get very few catalogs now. Anything I want to see from my favorite vendors, I look at online at their websites.
Now if I could just deal with all those recipes and other articles I want to read that I rip out to save and read later. I also have the stack of membership magazines that I want to read. Most I could read online, but I prefer reading in places other than in front of the computer.
I’m still working on those piles but things are definitely improving!
sharon
166 days ago,
Qrystal said:
I just wanted to say how powerful it is to have the first step be to “bring a heightened awareness to” whatever it is that needs to change. It’s very comforting to simply “notice with curiosity” instead of berate oneself for a problem.
Mail handling is one of many things I want to improve about my workflow and lifeflow. The problem with having so many things that I want to improve is that trying to change too many things at once is often overwhelming.
However, I recently realized that there IS one change I can make that can help with MANY many things: expand my awareness, paying attention to where that awareness is directed. As a result, each thing I do takes into account all sorts of awareness that I may have been too stressed to pay explicit attention to before.
Anyways, thanks for yet another gentle and inspiring reminder that it’s okay to just observe first, and then introduce gentle changes that can improve those observations!
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162 days ago,
jennifer said:
Sharon – Improving, indeed! Way to go for creating such a great system for respecting your space. I love your vision of only the things you *want* entering the space. How inspiring!
Qrystal – Absolutely anything can be done if we just take time to notice what factors are in play. With that knowledge, our actions are informed. Our choices are purposeful. Yay for noticing!
161 days ago,
Regina said:
RA help us! That made me laugh! Thanks, Jen!!
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