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		<title>Wacky Office Tools: Recycled writing?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 15:03:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[These days, for the sake of our planet, we want our take-out burgers in cardboard, not plastic. We carry our own bags to the grocery store. We write our notes on recycled paper and we dutifully carry our old computer monitor to the local electronics recycle-guy when it finally gives up the ghost. Then, we [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/wacky-office-tools-recycled-writing' addthis:title='Wacky Office Tools: Recycled writing? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Paper-Mate-Biodegradable-Retractable-Ballpoint/dp/B0033AGVW0/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1319835859&amp;sr=8-5"><img class="alignright" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/213v2XlLJaL._SL500_AA300_.jpg" alt="" width="245" height="245" /></a>These days, for the sake of our planet, we want our take-out burgers in cardboard, not plastic. We carry our own bags to the grocery store. We write our notes on recycled paper and we dutifully carry our old computer monitor to the local electronics recycle-guy when it finally gives up the ghost. Then, we dump our fizzled writing instruments into the trash can where they finally end up choking the local land-fill with plastic parts destined to lie around forever.</p>
<p>Papermate, an old and respected name in writing systems, takes its responsibility to the future of our planet very seriously. These days, the company makes many of its products from bio-plastic parts which are completely biodegradable and will de-materialize within one year of introduction to the land-fill. Papermate also has an aggressive recycling message which accompanies its other instruments some of which are made from 70 to 100% recycled materials.</p>
<p>Next time you find yourself in the market for writing tools, consider following Papermate’s lead.</p>
<p><em>What recycled or recyclable products do you use in your home office and what motivates you to use them?</em></p>
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		<title>Wacky Office Tools: Spice up your vanilla post-it notes</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 14:03:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Has your life grown a little drab? Is your ‘to do list’ unimaginative and bland? Mr. Sketch to the rescue! For those of us whose color-coding system for calendars, appointments and grocery lists has become a bit mundane, Mr. Sketch introduces colorful, SCENTED markers guaranteed to spice up even the most vanilla of post-it notes. [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/wacky-office-tools-spice-up-your-vanilla-post-it-notes' addthis:title='Wacky Office Tools: Spice up your vanilla post-it notes '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Has your life grown a little drab? Is your ‘to do list’ unimaginative and bland? Mr. Sketch to the rescue! For those of us whose color-coding system for calendars, appointments and grocery lists has become a bit mundane, Mr. Sketch introduces colorful, SCENTED markers guaranteed to spice up even the most vanilla of post-it notes.</p>
<p>Now, when I get up early and stumble to my home office with my first cup of coffee, I can organize my day by SMELL! Morning appointments are cherry, afternoon calls are licorice. From melon to mango, Mr. Sketch makes it possible for me to plan my entire schedule without even opening my eyes! Ok. Perhaps that’s stretching it.</p>
<p>For the more practical among us, Mr. Sketch’s scented markers provide an outstanding way to capture the attention of co-worker, students, and family members! Not only are theynon-toxic and brilliantly colored, they pack an extra punch! Since scent is one of the brain’s most powerful memory tools, Mr. Sketch promises to stimulate the olfactory bulbs of everyone around you.</p>
<p>Oh. And did I mention how much fun they are?</p>
<p><em>Do you love Mr. Sketch too? How do you use these in your home office?</em></p>
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		<title>Forcing, pushing, and other ways to ruin a perfectly good project</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2011 03:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever had one of those projects? You know, one of those &#8220;I just have to push through this&#8221; kind of projects? Maybe it&#8217;s your quarterly taxes, or a holiday is coming and you just have to get the dining room table cleared, or your newsletter is way overdue. Maybe it&#8217;s that overwhelming stack [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/forcing-pushing-and-other-ways-to-ruin-a-perfectly-good-project' addthis:title='Forcing, pushing, and other ways to ruin a perfectly good project '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Have you ever had one of those projects?</h2>
<p>You know, one of those &#8220;I just have to push through this&#8221; kind of projects? Maybe it&#8217;s your quarterly taxes, or a holiday is coming and you just have to get the dining room table cleared, or your newsletter is way overdue. Maybe it&#8217;s that overwhelming stack of books I wrote about in the <a href="http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/removing-dreaded-books-in-8-heartfelt-steps" target="_blank">last newsletter</a>. Something has reached the breaking point.</p>
<p>If you felt motivated about this project, that would be great. You could use that momentum to fuel yourself. But, unfortunately, the project I&#8217;m talking about is something you&#8217;ve been dreading. Something that&#8217;s tedious and loathsome. This project will take a lot of effort and you don&#8217;t feel like doing it. Can you feel it? Got something in mind?</p>
<h2>The usual strategy is to push</h2>
<p>I&#8217;m not a mom, but I know enough people who&#8217;ve given birth to know that there&#8217;s only one time in that whole process that it&#8217;s helpful to push &#8212; and that&#8217;s at the end. If pushing starts too soon it doesn&#8217;t just complicate matters, it also wastes precious energy needed later. That baby won&#8217;t join the world until it&#8217;s good and ready.</p>
<p>With a loathed project, a lot of people start pushing at the very beginning. Sometimes this works initially, but it leaves you exhausted long before you reach the finish line. In fact, one of my intrepid researching clients found a study that shows that exerting willpower actually lowers your blood sugar. So, pushing isn&#8217;t just emotionally and mentally draining, it affects your metabolism too.</p>
<h2>Take tax prep, for example</h2>
<p>As I write this, I&#8217;m vaguely aware that the quarterly tax for self-employed folks is due this week. I&#8217;ve been spending a lot of energy avoiding thinking about it and telling myself that I&#8217;ll get to it. Interestingly, I&#8217;m using up energy just to push away the project. When the time comes to do it, it would be a prime opportunity for me to push through and do a lot of inner damage.</p>
<p>In the past, I would have stayed up late, gotten overwhelmed, and berated myself for waiting so long. I would have pushed through with insufficient sleep, tearful outbursts, and days of recovery time. Now I have more effective strategies (which I&#8217;ll share with you in a moment), but this is one example of how pushing doesn&#8217;t really work.</p>
<h2>Mean self-talk makes everything worse</h2>
<p>The biggest problem with pushing is that when your energy for a project starts to flag and you become fatigued, you switch gears into a kind of self-loathing, &#8220;pull yourself up by your bootstraps&#8221; talk. It&#8217;s an insidious inner dialog that includes nasty jabs at your own value. A few of mine include &#8220;What the hell is wrong with you?&#8221; and &#8220;You idiot! Why did you wait so long?&#8221; (and those are on a nice day). I suppose some people&#8217;s inner dialog is directed at the complexity of IRS forms and the agency in general, but my mean-talk is usually directed at me. You too?</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the thing: the mean self-talk is intended to motivate us. No matter how miserable we feel about these inner exclamations, they&#8217;re misguided attempts to prod us into action when we&#8217;re tired. But now, instead of having a loathsome, tedious, dreaded project &#8212; you also feel like crap. Yuck.</p>
<p>Been there?</p>
<h2>Alternatives to pushing through</h2>
<h3>Make space:</h3>
<p>Back to the baby analogy for a moment &#8211; what&#8217;s the one thing everyone learns to do in preparation for birth? Breathing. When it comes to projects, you can do literal breathing to get calm. You can also give yourself breathing room by taking a short break, physically leaving the space you&#8217;re in, getting outside, taking a shower. You can do any number of things that will help you get out of the spin and feeling more grounded again.</p>
<h3>Talk nicely:</h3>
<p>How would you talk to your best friend if she were in the same spot as you, struggling with a project? Being the kind of person you are, you&#8217;d offer support and solace and commiseration. Chances are pretty good that you&#8217;d offer encouragement.</p>
<p>What would it be like to do that for yourself? One thing you can try is pausing to notice the steps you&#8217;ve already taken. Say them out loud or in your head. Say encouraging things. Try being your own best friend and supporting yourself when the chips are down.</p>
<h3>Explore small steps forward:</h3>
<p>One of the things that makes big projects harder is their complexity. So it can help to take a moment and jot down the next 3-6 steps in your project. Baby steps. For my taxes example, I first need to get a summary of the last 3 months&#8217; earnings. Secondly, I can then divide that number by 33%. Thirdly, I can get out the checkbook and an envelope. When I write out these steps, I start feeling calmer. My brain engages. It begins to seem possible that I can complete this by Thursday.</p>
<h3>Ask for help:</h3>
<p>When you&#8217;re struggling <em>and</em> isolated, this sometimes compounds the difficulty of doing something big. It helps to share your struggles with someone you trust to be supportive. To participate in a class that focuses on your project, like <a href="http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/products/for-havens-sake" target="_blank">decluttering your office</a>. To find a buddy who struggles with the same project and work encouragingly side-by-side. Just because you got here alone doesn&#8217;t mean it has to stay that way.</p>
<h2>In short, you&#8217;re worth it!</h2>
<p>Applying these alternatives takes time, but it&#8217;s worth it because they can decrease the amount of stress you feel when working on a big project. Over time, you feel less dread and more confidence in doing things that seem hard. Best of all, bringing kindness to challenging projects leaves you with extra energy to spend on yourself, fun activities, and with those you love!</p>
<p><strong><em>Feel free to share your experiences with hard projects!</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Monkey Mind and Cheese Puffs</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 00:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting distracted and getting stuff done in your home office ************************************ Distraction Your brain is a busy, busy place. You try to concentrate on your work &#8212; doing that marketing stuff or that article or balancing your books &#8212; but you &#8220;come to&#8221; an hour later on Facebook, looking at your childhood best friend&#8217;s baby [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/monkey-mind-and-cheese-puffs' addthis:title='Monkey Mind and Cheese Puffs '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Getting distracted and getting stuff done in your home office</em><br />
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<h2>Distraction</h2>
<p>Your brain is a busy, busy place. You try to concentrate on your work &#8212; doing that marketing stuff or that article or balancing your books &#8212; but you &#8220;come to&#8221; an hour later on Facebook, looking at your childhood best friend&#8217;s baby photos.</p>
<p>Ahh, yes. We all do it. We&#8217;d like to be perpetually productive and professional, but our creative minds don&#8217;t willingly take on that yoke. Although you are a grown adult, you have a distractable three-year-old inside your brain throwing tantrums, picking daisies, and &#8212; ooh! What&#8217;s that over there? A raven mind that&#8217;s drawn to on shiny objects. The Buddhists call it monkey-mind.</p>
<p>Whatever you call it, despite knowing all the things you&#8217;re supposed to do in business, something else takes over. Regularly.</p>
<h2>Distraction happens</h2>
<p>As I type this, there&#8217;s an <a href="http://identify.whatbird.com/obj/212/_/American_Robin.aspx" target="_blank">American Robin</a> sitting in a tree close to my window, singing full tilt boogie. He&#8217;s so near, I can see his bright yellow beak opening and his body expanding with each burst of song. It&#8217;s all I can do to not watch him for the next 20 minutes instead of write this.</p>
<p>Full disclosure: I started this article two weeks ago and have been in compulsive Twitter-checking mode since. Hmm&#8230;</p>
<p>So whether your distraction is caused by long-term stress or a hard-wired condition like ADHD, it happens. Our brains are not machines. They&#8217;re not meant to be &#8220;on&#8221; constantly.</p>
<h2>Your mind wants to gobble up cheese puffs</h2>
<p>When your mind&#8217;s distractable, anything that&#8217;s visual and easy to consume is like a bag of cheese puffs for your brain. When I&#8217;m in a brain-snacky kind of mood, I&#8217;ll click on just about any link that crosses my path. My brain snackage includes Facebook, Twitter, email, <a href="http://www.cakewrecks.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">cakewrecks.com</a>, and cake decorating videos on YouTube. It&#8217;s true.</p>
<p>There are alternatives to letting distraction drive you (and those who love you) nuts. Here are a few:</p>
<h2>Five ideas for shifting distraction</h2>
<h2>1. The power of a pause</h2>
<p>If you notice yourself doing these cheese-puffy activities in the moment, pause. Don&#8217;t berate yourself. Just stop and gently ask yourself what you need.</p>
<p>Very often we chomp on brain snacks because we&#8217;re tired, overwhelmed, or feel uncertain about how to begin something big. Very often, I find myself online when I need a break.</p>
<p>So I stop and ask, &#8220;Is this what I want to do right now? Is this activity nourishing me? What do I need?&#8221; Asking these questions can invite curiosity and help you redirect your attention in a positive, respectful way.</p>
<h2>2. Let &#8216;er rip</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s important to recognize that having a distractable mind isn&#8217;t a bad thing. You&#8217;re not lazy or lacking in discipline. You&#8217;re <em>creative</em>. You&#8217;re <em>curious</em>. Your mind is <em>naturally wired</em> for discovery and insight!</p>
<p>When you have these gifts, you can honor them by allowing time for them. You might still nibble on mental cheese puffs occasionally, but I invite you to be curious about what you&#8217;re longing to explore. And then do it!</p>
<p>Instead of obsessively watching cake decorating videos on YouTube, I signed up for a month-long fondant decorating class. It was so much more fun and engaging (and delicious) to practice this new skill than watching any video! What do you find fascinating? Make a date with it. Indulge it. Have fun!</p>
<h2>3. Try something other than force</h2>
<p>Have you ever noticed yourself using force to focus on and complete something? Sometimes force is effective. Sometimes, no matter how much you force, your work starts to drag to a snail&#8217;s pace. Instead of strenuously pushing pushing pushing to get something done, give your brain some down time.</p>
<p>Give yourself an on-purpose distraction. Do something different. Get up, move around, get the mail, stretch, put some stuff in the recycle bin. Just get away from the project for a few minutes and see what happens.</p>
<h2>4. Write for clarity</h2>
<p>When I&#8217;m super-distracted, I grab a blank sheet of paper and a purple pen, sit on the floor (away from my desk), and write down everything I&#8217;m trying to hold in my head.</p>
<p>Writing things by hand is a powerfully integrative activity. It only takes a few minutes to get it all down on paper &#8212; and it feels like setting down a 10lb bag of cheese puffs. Get it all out of your head. Suddenly you feel lighter and clearer.</p>
<p>In <a href="http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/products/spa-day" target="_blank">Office Spa Day</a>, I encourage folks to do this kind of brainstorming. Once you&#8217;ve offloaded the list onto paper, I invite you to choose the one easiest, funnest, most do-able thing on the list. When you start doing that one thing, overwhelm turns into focus and motivation. It&#8217;s amazingly simple and so effective!</p>
<h2>5. Practice slowing down</h2>
<p>Sometimes distractibility is a sign that you&#8217;ve been busy and you expect to be busy for-basically-ever. It&#8217;s not fun, and lack of focus is a symptom of a life out of balance. Slowing down can help.</p>
<p>Some people rightfully resist the idea of slowing down because it seems counter-productive. How does slowing down get through the to-do list? Some are afraid if they slow down, they&#8217;ll never start back up again. As I mentioned, your brain can&#8217;t go-go-go constantly without compromising functionality.</p>
<p>The beauty of slowing down is contrast. When you take a break from the Internet for a weekend or afternoon, or when you sit and read a book instead of racing through email, you recalibrate your sense of what&#8217;s normal. You re-integrate a new, healthier pace for your brain and body. Sometimes you can even remember that there&#8217;s more to life than getting more stuff done (like hugging, savoring a meal, or contemplating clouds).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve written a bunch about the value of <a href="http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/is-your-spirit-tank-on-empty-2" target="_blank">retreating</a>. So has <a href="http://jenniferlouden.com/shop_books/womansretreat/" target="_blank">Jen Louden</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Eat-Pray-Love-Everything-Indonesia/dp/0143038419/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1308010711&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">Elizabeth Gilbert</a> and a gaggle of other awesome people. Maybe there&#8217;s some merit to this slowing down thing. Just maybe.</p>
<h2>Distracted?</h2>
<p>If you&#8217;re distracted, just know that you&#8217;re in good company. Setting an intention to be kind to yourself and compassionate in your solutions can make a big difference.</p>
<p><strong><em>Are these ideas helpful? What else helps transform your distraction?</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Wacky Office Tools: Typewriter connected to an iPad</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 11:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re the type who laments the loss of the typewriter and you love cutting-edge tech tools, weep no more. Seriously. It actually works. It makes me wonder if typewriter ergonomics are superior to the flat keyboards most of us use today. Although I haven&#8217;t bitten the iPad bullet &#8212; yet (I&#8217;ve been recently tempted), [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/wacky-office-tools-typewriter-connected-to-an-ipad' addthis:title='Wacky Office Tools: Typewriter connected to an iPad '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>If you&#8217;re the type who laments the loss of the typewriter and you love cutting-edge tech tools, weep no more.</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.coolmomtech.com/2011/01/usb_typewriter_turned_computer.php"><img class="aligncenter" title="Source: http://www.coolmomtech.com/2011/01/usb_typewriter_turned_computer.php" src="http://i57.photobucket.com/albums/g240/lizcoolmompicks/cool%20mom%20tech/usbtypewriter.jpg" alt="" width="570" height="427" /></a></p>
<p>Seriously. It actually works. It makes me wonder if typewriter ergonomics are superior to the flat keyboards most of us use today.</p>
<p>Although I haven&#8217;t bitten the iPad bullet &#8212; yet (I&#8217;ve been recently tempted), this application is very novel and heartwarming. Imagine the possibilities!</p>
<p>For the full scoop, visit: <a href="http://www.coolmomtech.com/2011/01/usb_typewriter_turned_computer.php" target="_blank">http://www.coolmomtech.com/2011/01/usb_typewriter_turned_computer.php</a> (hat tip to @<a href="http://twitter.com/curvyyogini" target="_blank">curvyyogini</a>)</p>
<p><strong>Thoughts? Me-toos? What do you think?</strong></p>
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		<title>Everyday Organizing Genius: Lea Shulman</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2010 18:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyday Organizing Genius Creative people can be organized! In this feature, learn about the simple genius organizing ideas that everyday entrepreneurs use&#8230; And get a sneak peek at what their home office looks like! Lea Shulman, Interior Designer 1.What about your career do you find most fulfilling? I have to say the most fulfilling thing [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/everyday-organizing-genuius-lea-schulman' addthis:title='Everyday Organizing Genius: Lea Shulman '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Everyday Organizing Genius</h1>
<p><em>Creative people can be organized! In this feature, learn about the simple genius organizing ideas that everyday entrepreneurs use&#8230; </em><em><strong>And </strong>get a sneak peek at what their home office looks like!</em></p>
<h2>Lea Shulman, Interior Designer</h2>
<p><a href="http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/100_2842.jpg" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-3512 alignright" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="100_2842" src="http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/100_2842.jpg" alt="" width="313" height="313" /></a><strong>1.What about your career do you find most fulfilling?</strong></p>
<p>I have to say the most fulfilling thing I find about being a designer is that each project is never the same.  It’s like having a blank piece of paper and a box of crayons when I get started with a new client.  I get to do what I love for a living.  That in itself is very fulfilling!</p>
<p><strong>2.What was it like going from a design firm to a home office?  What were your concerns about running your own business from home?</strong></p>
<p>Honestly the transition has been a little difficult, but now that I am in a groove (nearly) I really love it. My previous employers gave me a lot of freedom and flexibility, so it is nice to have even more of that. But working in a house that I share with two small kids and a husband is very distracting sometimes.  It’s hard to keep away from the dishes in the sink and the mountain of laundry piling up!</p>
<p>For me, the major concern is about time-management and work/family balance.  I was already in a life-transition when I left my previous employer.  My family was growing.  It wasn’t until recently that I accepted there isn’t enough time in my life for everything.  So I only take on the projects I can handle, and every morning I look at my list of things to do and choose what is realistically going to get done.</p>
<p><strong>3.Talk about your workspace set up.  What changes did you make in order to make it feel professional to you?</strong></p>
<p>The first thing I did was measure and lay out my space!  Then I designed a storage unit that I was lucky enough to have my father build.   I ordered a HUGE desk from Target that is stylish and can accommodate my drawing board.   Good, stylish organization makes me happy, from the pens in their fancy glass tumblers to the colored folders and all the pretty baskets and bins for samples.  I find it much easier to use binders instead of filing folders so I have a lot of important information right there on the bookshelf when I need it.  No digging in the file cabinet for my tax information or purchase orders and notes!  I must have a clear space to work so I can be creative.  I never got around to painting or doing the window treatments that I wanted (designers are famous for never finishing their own spaces!) but it’s a great little space where I can be productive.</p>
<p><strong>4. Did you have to establish any emotional/energetic boundaries with your family?  What were they?</strong></p>
<p>I share my office with two things:  My husband and the laundry sorter!  My husband needs a quiet, clear area where he can make calls to clients when he is home, or have a place to work on days when he is not in the city.  I’m lucky – he understands that our office is really my headquarters.  I was very firm in setting the family parameters:  There will be no toys or other various household items stored in our home office!   I need spur-of-the-moment access to a working , grown-up and private space if I need to take a quick call, or the baby surprises me with a nap and I can unexpectedly get something done for Lea Shulman Interiors.   I’m even getting used to ignoring the lurking laundry sorter when I’m working!<br />
What plans are ahead for your business?</p>
<p>I’m very excited to be starting a new project in the next couple of weeks.  I’m designing the renovation of a Brooklyn, NY production studio. The owners have been running their business from a small bedroom in their brownstone for a few years now.  The basement of their brownstone was once a dentist’s office and I’ll be designing a funky loft-style, complete renovation for their new “home-office.” I’m thrilled to be working for another young, home-based entrepreneurial family</p>
<p><em>Lea Shulman founded her company to obtain balance between the high quality work she became accustomed to providing to her clients and the desire to raise happy children and have a great home life. Lea Shulman Interiors was founded in 2008 after working in the design industry for almost fifteen years. She holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in Interior Design and has a diverse background that includes work as an in-house kitchen consultant and interior designer with a custom home builder in Greenwich, CT.</em></p>
<p><em>Lea has been published both individually and in collaborative projects in publications such as Kitchen &amp; Bath Ideas, The Bridal Guide, and Better Homes and Gardens.  She has also been featured on local charity kitchen tours in Connecticut and been published in industry trade catalogs.</em></p>
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		<title>Wacky Office Tools: Luminous folder icons</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 10:03:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When two different clients twice mentioned Kate England&#8217;s work over at Marmalade Moon, I had to check it out. I mean, just the name sounded delicious! Kate is a visual artist and designer who (among other things) creates icons that make desktop organizing easier. They&#8217;re appealing to the eye. I confess I haven&#8217;t tried these [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/wacky-office-tools-luminous-folder-icons' addthis:title='Wacky Office Tools: Luminous folder icons '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p>When two different clients twice mentioned Kate England&#8217;s work over at Marmalade Moon, I had to check it out. I mean, just the name sounded delicious!</p>
<p>Kate is a visual artist and designer who (among other things) creates icons that make desktop organizing easier. They&#8217;re appealing to the eye. I confess I haven&#8217;t tried these yet, but the idea of <a href="http://www.marmalademoon.com/stay-organized-by-color-coding-your-desktop-and-following-your-workflow/" target="_blank">color-coded folders</a> on my computer desktop sounds amazing. Lots of creative people think in color, not words &#8212; so it&#8217;s worth taking a look.</p>
<p>Kate even offers a whole line of <a href="http://www.marmalademoon.com/tag/luminous-folder-icons/" target="_blank">free folder icons</a>, which if you&#8217;re tempted by the idea they would allow you to play with this concept (and try it out) without spending a dime. I&#8217;m going to give them a whirl the next time I organize my desktop.</p>
<p>Best of all? Kate provides instructions how to set up and use these icons on your own desktop, <a href="http://www.marmalademoon.com/how-to-customize-your-desktop-with-icons-and-wallpapers/" target="_blank">step-by-step</a>. They work for PC and Mac.</p>
<p><strong>Thoughts? Me-toos? If you have used these, what do you think?</strong></p>
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		<title>A surprising tool for increasing productivity</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 10:03:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I write this, there are more unanswered emails in my &#8220;inbox&#8221; than I care to admit. This has been a week in which my best intentions were thwarted, and I received feedback from a couple of trustworthy sources that I wasn&#8217;t &#8220;on my game.&#8221; Email was part of it, but I also gave out [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/a-surprising-tool-for-increasing-productivity' addthis:title='A surprising tool for increasing productivity '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>As I write this, there are more unanswered emails in my &#8220;inbox&#8221; than I care to admit.</strong></p>
<p>This has been a week in which my best intentions were thwarted, and I received feedback from a couple of trustworthy sources that I wasn&#8217;t &#8220;on my game.&#8221; Email was part of it, but I also gave out the wrong time for a class, failed to prepare properly for a meeting, and spent too much time working on stuff that wasn&#8217;t all that important.</p>
<h3>Stressful? You bet.</h3>
<p><strong>My high standards are where the problem started. </strong>When I made my first flub of the week, the little Gremlin of Self-Judgment perched on my shoulder and whispered some not-very-nice things about me.</p>
<p>When I made my second flub, the whisper became a stern repartee.</p>
<p>It only got worse from there. I mean, seriously! I was <em>counting my errors!</em> By the end of the week, I was buried in self-judgment, exhausted, and feeling rather insecure about my competence as a business owner.</p>
<h3>Thank God I&#8217;m normal.</h3>
<p>If people I admire didn&#8217;t tell me they have weeks just like this, I would be really scared. But I know it&#8217;s normal.</p>
<p><strong>If anything, making a few gaffes this week illustrates how far I&#8217;ve come as a cluttered creative person. </strong>I used to forget things daily. I was constantly late, making excuses and tearfully begging forgiveness. My teachers never knew how to grade me at the end of a semester because (although I participated enthusiastically in class) I&#8217;d never turned in any homework.</p>
<p>I <em>have </em>come a long way.</p>
<h3>What trips me up</h3>
<p>When I start forgetting things, I use it against myself. As evidence.</p>
<p>That nasty gremlin is out to prove that I&#8217;ll always be that disorganized girl. It says, &#8220;You think you&#8217;re so organized, <em>we&#8217;ll just see</em>, shall we?!&#8221;</p>
<p>And then I make another mistake. &#8220;See??<em> Ha! Ha!</em> You ARE the same person you&#8217;ve always been! You&#8217;ll never be organized!&#8221; And then I make even more mistakes.</p>
<p><em>Ugh.</em></p>
<p>Ever been there? It totally sucks.</p>
<h3>What I do (and maybe you might like to try too)</h3>
<p>The other day, I had a nice talk with my wonderful, sensitive uncle and friend &#8212; who also happens to facilitate non-violent communication (NVC) groups. Uncle Tim caught me off guard when he used a term I&#8217;d never heard before, &#8220;self-empathy&#8221;. When he said it, little bells rang gleefully inside my heart.</p>
<p>Self-empathy!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know how the official NVC technique works, but yesterday when I &#8220;caught&#8221; myself making a mistake and entertaining that nasty gremlin, I took a deep breath &#8212; and this is what I said to myself:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Jen, you are having a hard week. You&#8217;re feeling badly about not showing up the way you want to with people you really love. You&#8217;re feeling really embarrassed for missing connections and for giving incorrect information. It&#8217;s okay to feel sad and embarrassed and disappointed.</p>
<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re human. It&#8217;s okay to make mistakes and not to be perfect. You are doing the best you can right now. I want to remind you that your heart is in the right place. Forgive yourself for making these &#8216;errors&#8217;. Don&#8217;t let your past determine your future, okay? You can start fresh, right now. You are a good human being and I love you.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>I wiped away a few tears, took a deep breath&#8230; and sat for a while with a nice cup of tea. It was such a different way of talking with myself, and I could feel peace settling into my heart, where doubt and anxiety had been.</p>
<h3>Compassion is a powerful tool for creating order</h3>
<p>What I am slowly discovering is that the more compassionate I am with myself, the more productive I am. It sounds anti-intuitive, but judgment makes my spirit shrivel up and escalates stress. When I am compassionate with myself, I feel free. I have choices and see opportunities to adjust my actions creatively.</p>
<p>Of course, this is about organizing, but it&#8217;s also more than that. The truth is, no amount of order creates happiness. Only <em>you </em>can create happiness. So, while you&#8217;re on the path to becoming more organized and less cluttered, why not offer yourself the compassion and self-empathy you crave &#8212; and so rightly deserve?</p>
<h4><em><strong>Thoughts? Yeah, buts? Me toos? </strong></em></h4>
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		<title>When you need to focus but your brain won&#8217;t cooperate</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 19:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Making friends with the whims of concentration Please enjoy this sample narration from my brain last week while I was attempting to work on an Important Thing: Argh! The cat&#8217;s licking is driving me crazy!! I wonder what&#8217;s on Twitter? (opens Twitter and reads a few entries) I need to do that THING! Argh! Quit [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/when-you-need-to-focus-but-your-brain-wont-cooperate' addthis:title='When you need to focus but your brain won&#8217;t cooperate '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Making friends with the whims of concentration</em></p>
<p>Please enjoy this sample narration from my brain last week while I was attempting to work on an Important Thing:</p>
<blockquote><p>Argh! The cat&#8217;s licking is driving me crazy!! I wonder what&#8217;s on Twitter? (opens Twitter and reads a few entries)</p>
<p>I need to do that THING! Argh! Quit farting around! (closes Twitter) Okay, now <em>work</em>. (attempts to start the THING)</p>
<p>I wonder why those bees are hanging around outside my window&#8230; (ponders) What&#8217;s in my email inbox? (checks) Wait &#8211; what was I doing &#8211; oh! The THING!</p>
<p>Argh!</p></blockquote>
<p>Two hours later, the THING was not done.</p>
<p>When I was a kid, it was the same scenario except I was supposed to be cleaning my room. I&#8217;d get distracted by some fascinating thing (shell collection, old books, etc.) in the attempt and my mom would speak from another room, &#8220;I don&#8217;t hear any cleaning going on in there.&#8221;</p>
<p>It used to drive my mom batty. Now it drives ME batty. If I had an employer, I&#8217;d have someone to keep me on task (maybe). But, like many, I am self-employed and sometimes get hopelessly off-track and can&#8217;t get back on.</p>
<h2>Traction or distraction?</h2>
<p>If I had traction, I would be moving forward with the THING. But in the scenario above, I was completely distracted and unable to focus.</p>
<p>If you have ADD or just think you do, maybe you can relate. We all have days like this. In fact, one of my favorite authors, <a href="http://www.powells.com/s?kw=crazybusy%20about%20to%20snap&amp;PID=32352" target="_blank">Ned Hallowell</a>, theorizes that even those without ADD may have the same behaviors when trying to juggle too many things.</p>
<p>If you get distracted like this periodically, it&#8217;s pretty normal. But, since it&#8217;s hardly a desirable place to be in very long, you might be wondering what to do about it?</p>
<h2>Moving toward traction</h2>
<p>Bouts of distraction happen. That&#8217;s just how it is.</p>
<p>Everyone has different symptoms when they&#8217;re feeling distracted, but the outcome is usually the same: you&#8217;re busy, but your work&#8217;s not purposeful.</p>
<p>Since I really believe it&#8217;s your office&#8217;s job to support you, sometimes making small adjustments to your space can help you feel less distracted so you can focus better.</p>
<h3>Notice</h3>
<p>Small adjustments come from the little things you notice around you. Be curious for a moment about what&#8217;s distracting you. On the crazy day I described above the sun&#8217;s glare was bothering me. I noticed the cat&#8217;s repetitious grooming. I looked around me and saw multiple open project folders were vying for my attention.</p>
<p>All of the things you notice are great information.</p>
<h3>Adjust accordingly</h3>
<p>Once you realize what&#8217;s pulling you off-track, take a couple of minutes to manage your experience. Remove the attention-grabbers. Your sanity is worth it.</p>
<p>For myself, I closed the blinds to keep the glare out of my eyes, I moved the cat off my lap, I put a project away that was messing up my desk, and closed the other blinds because the sun moved (well, technically, the earth moved).</p>
<p>Anyway, managing my experience helped me concentrate enough to start the THING.</p>
<h3>Except when that doesn&#8217;t work</h3>
<p>I tried to start the THING and got distracted. Again.</p>
<p>And then I humbly realized: I can&#8217;t bend focus to my will. Concentration can only be managed. Even in the clearest, most refreshing spaces sometimes people still can&#8217;t concentrate.</p>
<h2>When focus is an Inside Job</h2>
<p>When adjusting your external space doesn&#8217;t work, it&#8217;s time to look inside yourself and find out what is really happening. It&#8217;s what I call an Inside Job.</p>
<p>If your brain is zipping along at breakneck speed &#8211; while you&#8217;re compulsively checking email, Facebook, Twitter, and photos of your dogs all at the same time &#8211; it&#8217;s a symptom.</p>
<p>Sometimes you need a break. Or a glass of water. Or a 2-week vacation. No matter which way you slice it, your brain needs to be allowed to run free.</p>
<h2>A desk can drag you down</h2>
<p>Once upon a time, people moved around. They walked places, moved their bodies for work, rode animals, collected their own food. Frankly, it wasn&#8217;t that long ago.</p>
<p>Today, I know a lot of people who, for work, sit at desks for a large portion of the day. Me, for one. Now, that&#8217;s not such a bad thing. If not for the internet, Inspired Home Office wouldn&#8217;t exist.</p>
<p>But for many people that natural, vital movement is gone.</p>
<h2>What to do about it</h2>
<p>That compulsive internet checking is an attempt to meet the need for movement, except that it doesn&#8217;t work very well.</p>
<p>If you beat yourself up because you can&#8217;t concentrate, take a fresh look at what&#8217;s happening.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.powells.com/s?kw=Learning%20to%20Become%20the%20Creative%20Force%20in%20Your%20Own%20Life&amp;PID=32352" target="_blank">Robert Fritz</a>, another of my very favorite authors, believes that taking breaks is vital to creativity. Who hasn&#8217;t gotten a good idea in the shower? Or out walking?</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not productive and feeling antsy, move. That&#8217;s right. Get on up and get away from your desk. Do something you like. You&#8217;ll be surprised what good it&#8217;ll do you &#8211; and how much better you&#8217;ll concentrate when you get back.</p>
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		<title>Why working harder makes working harder</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Feeling spacey? Get some space. Perhaps it&#8217;s just one of those messages from the Universe, but I have had almost the same exact conversation with three clients in the last week. That usually means one of two things: 1. there&#8217;s a lesson I need to learn myself or 2. it means it&#8217;s time to write [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.inspiredhomeoffice.com/why-working-harder-makes-working-harder' addthis:title='Why working harder makes working harder '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Feeling spacey? Get some space.</em></p>
<p>Perhaps it&#8217;s just one of those messages from the Universe, but I have had almost the same exact conversation with three clients in the last week.</p>
<p>That usually means one of two things: 1. there&#8217;s a lesson I need to learn myself or 2. it means it&#8217;s time to write a newsletter about it. It&#8217;s ususally both.</p>
<h2>So here&#8217;s the scenario:</h2>
<p>You&#8217;ve got something you&#8217;re working on. The deadline isn&#8217;t tomorrow, but it&#8217;s coming up. You&#8217;ve been procrastinating doing it for a while and you know it&#8217;s time to crack down and get it done.</p>
<p>So you sit down at your computer to get it done, but first you check your email. Then you check the weather. Then you check email again. You know where I&#8217;m going with this, right? The Thing doesn&#8217;t never get done. (Yes, you heard me right with my double negative.)</p>
<h2>The creative process can&#8217;t be forced.</h2>
<p>Have you ever asked someone who speaks a foreign language to &#8220;say something&#8221; in that language? You know what happens: they blank. They look around in the sky for inspiration to strike, but they&#8217;re on the spot and nothing comes out.</p>
<p>The same thing happens when you&#8217;re trying to create by force.</p>
<p>Most people hold the mistaken belief that creativity means producing something. They look at a piece of artwork or hear a song and think: &#8220;they&#8217;re so creative.&#8221;</p>
<h2>Creativity actually comes before production.</h2>
<p>I know this is abstract, but hang in there with me.</p>
<p>Have you ever been struck by an idea so brilliant and so exciting, you can&#8217;t wait to create it? What were you doing when it occurred? A lot of the time, these flashes of inspiration come while you&#8217;re in lah-lah land, zoning out, doing mundane stuff.</p>
<p>Have you ever noticed that they don&#8217;t come when you&#8217;re under the gun, straining, slumped over the computer like Quasimodo? Nothing happens then, does it. There&#8217;s a reason for this: creativity needs space.</p>
<p>But we don&#8217;t give it space. We try to force it. We push, thinking: &#8220;I&#8217;ve GOT to get this done.&#8221;  All that email and weather-checking is an attempt to buy you time. Your brain has other ideas.</p>
<h2>The positive side of procrastination</h2>
<p>Procrastination has a positive intention: to give your brain the space it needs to rest, regroup, and pop out another brilliant, twinkly idea.</p>
<p>When you force productivity, it backfires. Things that &#8220;should&#8221; be simple, take forever. Talk about frustrating.</p>
<h2>How to get <em>space </em>to work for you</h2>
<p>I was talking to a client recently who cracked her own code. She noticed that every time she was pushing herself, her body was in a certain posture and she felt a specific emotion.</p>
<p>One day, she decided to do something about it (I&#8217;m so proud): she took a break.</p>
<p>She discovered that taking a break, walking away, wiping down counters in the kitchen, somehow that was enough. When she went back to work, The Thing was easy.</p>
<h2>What are you forcing?</h2>
<p>Me? Well, I have an incredible, exciting program I&#8217;ll be sharing with you&#8230; Sometime soon. But I&#8217;m sitting on my hands right now. I realized this week that it needs to percolate longer because trying to force it out by September 1st wasn&#8217;t working.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve been putting off a project or trying to get something accomplished, you hereby have my permission to stop. Better yet, give <em>yourself </em>permission.</p>
<h2>Things to try</h2>
<p><strong>1. Ask yourself what you&#8217;re needing. </strong>What do you really need? Is it a glass of water? A stroll by a river? To drive 75 mph blaring old Bruce Springsteen tunes? Whatever it is&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>2. Do it.</strong> You&#8217;ll be glad you did.</p>
<p><strong>3. Come back to the project later.</strong> When you come back, you&#8217;ll be nourished by the space and have renewed energy. Give it a whirl and let me know how it goes (I&#8217;ll keep you posted on my project, too).</p>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Feeling spacy? Get some space.</p>
<p>Why working harder makes working harder.</p>
<p>************************************</p>
<p>Perhaps it&#8217;s just one of those messages from the Universe, but I<br />
have had almost the same exact conversation with three clients in<br />
the last week.</p>
<p>That ususally means one of two things: 1. there&#8217;s a lesson I need<br />
to learn myself or 2. it means it&#8217;s time to write a newsletter<br />
about it. It&#8217;s ususally both.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s the scenario:</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve got something you&#8217;re working on. The deadline isn&#8217;t<br />
tomorrow, but it&#8217;s coming up. You&#8217;ve been procrastinating doing it<br />
for a while and you know it&#8217;s time to crack down and get it done.</p>
<p>So you sit down at your computer to get it done, but first you<br />
check your email. Then you check the weather. Then you check email<br />
again. You know where I&#8217;m going with this, right? The Thing doesn&#8217;t<br />
never get done. (Yes, you heard me right with my double negative.)</p>
<p>The creative process can&#8217;t be forced.</p>
<p>Have you ever asked someone who speaks a foreign language to &#8220;say<br />
something&#8221; in that language? You know what happens: they blank.<br />
They look around in the sky for insipration to strike, but they&#8217;re<br />
on the spot and nothing comes out.</p>
<p>The same thing happens when you&#8217;re trying to create by force.</p>
<p>Most people hold the mistaken belief that creativity means<br />
producing something. They look at a piece of artwork or hear a song<br />
and think: &#8220;they&#8217;re so creative.&#8221;</p>
<p>Creativity actually comes before production.</p>
<p>I know this is abstract, but hang in there with me.</p>
<p>Have you ever been struck by an idea so brilliant and so exciting,<br />
you can&#8217;t wait to create it? What were you doing when it occurred?<br />
A lot of the time, these flashes of inspiration come while you&#8217;re<br />
in lah-lah land, zoning out, doing mundane stuff.</p>
<p>Have you ever noticed that they don&#8217;t come when you&#8217;re under the<br />
gun, straining, slumped over the computer like Quasimodo? Nothing<br />
happens then, does it. There&#8217;s a reason for this: creativity needs<br />
space.</p>
<p>But we don&#8217;t give it space. We try to force it. We push, thinking:<br />
&#8220;I&#8217;ve GOT to get this done.&#8221;  All that email and weather-checking<br />
is an attempt to buy you time. Your brain has other ideas.</p>
<p>The positive side of procrastination</p>
<p>Procrastination has a positive intention: to give your brain the<br />
space it needs to rest, regroup, and pop out another brilliant,<br />
twinkly idea.</p>
<p>When you force productivity, it backfires. And things that &#8220;should&#8221;<br />
be simple, take forever. Talk about frustrating.</p>
<p>How to get space to work for you</p>
<p>I was talking to a client recently who cracked her own code. She<br />
noticed that every time she was pushing herself, her body was in a<br />
certain posture and she felt a specific emotion. One day, she<br />
decided to do something about it (I&#8217;m so proud): she took a break.</p>
<p>She discovered that taking a break, walking away, wiping down<br />
counters in the kitchen, somehow that was enough. When she went<br />
back to work, The Thing was easy.</p>
<p>What are you forcing?</p>
<p>Me? Well, I have an incredible, exciting program I&#8217;ll be sharing<br />
with you&#8230; Sometime soon. But I&#8217;m sitting on my hands right now. I<br />
realized this week that it needs to percolate longer because trying<br />
to force it out by September 1st wasn&#8217;t working.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve been putting off a project or trying to get something<br />
accomplished, you hereby have my permission to stop. Better yet,<br />
give yourself permission.</p>
<p>Things to try:</p>
<p>1. Ask yourself what you&#8217;re needing. What do you really need? Is it<br />
a glass of water? A stroll by a river? To drive 75 mph blaring old<br />
Bruce Springsteen tunes? Whatever it is&#8230;</p>
<p>2. Do it. You&#8217;ll be glad you did.</p>
<p>3. Come back to the project later. When you come back, you&#8217;ll be<br />
nourished by the space and have renewed energy. Give it a whirl and<br />
let me know how it goes (I&#8217;ll keep you posted on my project, too).</p></div>
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